THE MOM IN ME - 3

It has been observed by me and rather by many more that in this new era of women empowerment and as the woman in us takes a new stand in the outside world, the thought of becoming a mother is not just a picture of being the 'feminine form'.. its about making womanhood one with motherhood..!!

By stating this I don't say this just about those with jobs.. it's the same with those who choose to be home maker's!!!
The feeling of you never to be ready is always a part of it, so don't be disheartened by it... you will over come it as soon as you hold your baby for the first time. Although at this stage you are being filled with a lot of hormones in your body.... so over thinking and over reactions are all a part of the game!!

This is where mostly all the husband's are the ones to take lessons of extreme understanding...(the poor punching bags). Your going to be running into a spree of emotions... depending on what kind of hormones are affecting you the most!!! So don't be surprised if you find yourself screaming for the silliest reasons or crying for no reason.... that is all what we say 'hubby dear deal with it...!!!'

Being forgetful is also a common behavioral change that you will observe. For e.g. you would open the refrigerator to get something and might just scan it and shut it back again, and you could end up doing it a couple more times!! Or may be you would enter a room to fetch something and move out by doing something else like  - just look at yourself in the mirror, this too might happen a couple of times.. with the people around you wondering 'what's wrong with you?'. At such times husband's generally say' my love you seem to be stressed, why don't you relax!'. So girls enjoy the attention!!!

Coming to the health part.. High Heels are a big NO! Also from the start keep your posture right. This is extremely important as with time your body structure is going to change so we  or rather our bodies tend to take a more easier way to carry the extra weight! So as your curvature increases you tend to make a hunch in your back and protrude your tummy outward. And this tends to happen unknowingly... which in the later stages comes out as severe lower back aches, or disc swelling or spine stiffness!! So girls with a conscious effort and a conscious mind practice and make sure when you walk or stand your back is straight. Also tell your husband and people around you to correct you if they see you slouching your back. This is also a form of yoga, so will help you feel energized as much as possible.

More to come in my next blog.

About me- My name is Ruhi and am a mom of a lil toddler. These are my expriences of being a mom and the expriences that have been shared by my near and dear ones. Hope it helps mothers in some way to enjoy their motherhood.