THE MOM IN ME-1

Motherhood comes in only one form and i call it CARE. It has its many ways of showing and being showered upon. For many years I only knew the ways of recieving it,enjoying it and knowing that it exists. On the other hand knowing it had made a home in me was a different discovery in all... thats when i knew I am a MOM!!!
We see babies everyday in every other place that we go & little do we know we will be mothers one day.
My journey began when that little white stick showed me 2 red lines ,saying its positive!!!! Seeing it I already felt i was ready for this new chapter in my life. With time it made me think how many changes can two red lines bring in your life.
Motherhood starts making you aware of the new life inside you so quickly as though you were born for it... but then it is the truth isnt it?? We as women were designed for it .
The feeling of something living inside you is amazing... like you are not you and still you are!! And thus begins the journey of knowing and the need to know it all. A thought that tells you and makes you promise yourself never to make a mistake.... but then.. we are humans even if we ought to be moms!!! Dont think you wont make mistakes .. first time moms or not.. each pregnancy is different and each child born is unique.

The first time moms-dont think that nausea and vomitting are a part of every womans pregnancy!! (A myth our filmy world has created). You could be as normal as you are in everyday life or as ill as you could have ever imagined. Like I ,for instance never vomited while on the other hand my mom said she vomited even 10min before she gave me birth!!! Everything she ate during her time was out in minutes!!! I on the other hand enjoyed every kind of food and more so i cooked the cravings i had the way i wanted.. like more salted or bitter etc. So girls your expriences too will differ at your time!

What is more important is to try and eat healthy,do your check ups regularly,take your vaccinations on time and the most important is to exercise n be happy!! A happy mom is a stress free and a complication free mom. Also it is important to read about pregnancy and its stages because becoming a mom is always filled with surprises &new things to learn. A book that is most compulsorily recomended is "WHAT TO EXPECT WHEN YOU ARE EXPECTING" - A book that will answer all your questions!

More to come in my next blog.

About me- My name is Ruhi and am a mom of a lil toddler. These are my expriences of being a mom and the expriences that have been shared by my near and dear ones. Hope it helps mothers in some way to enjoy their motherhood.